Last year, I found some great books to share with students
that were the perfect springboard to conversations about being a good friend
and how to make friends. This year, I
hit the bookstore looking for a couple of new titles to add to our
repertoire. I found some that I think
will be perfect additions! These new
books address how to handle people who are bossy or make you mad. I am envisioning the anchor charts we can create
and add to during our class meetings, as we solve issues that arise throughout
the year.
My thoughts are coming together around the theme of friendship. I’ll start with a favorite from last year, Stick and Stone by Beth Ferry and Tom
Lichtenheld. If you haven’t read it, it’s a must have! Stick and Stone are lonely until Stick saves
Stone when someone is picking on him and the two become fast friends. When trouble strikes again, Stone is persistent
in helping his friend. After reading
this one, we’ll generate a chart of “What Makes a Good Friend?” using what we have
learned.
Another book I just discovered last year is Peanut Butter and Cupcake by Terry
Border. Peanut Butter is new to town and
is trying to make friends. He has a hard
time, until he finally meets Jelly! This
is a good opportunity to build an awareness of how it feels to be the new
kid. We’re going to use this book to role
play how to make friends when you are the new person and how to reach out when
someone new arrives in class. This book has
some great plays on words, which can be fun to explore in future word work and
writing lessons.
I was excited to find two brand new books this year that are hot off the press! Bossy Flossy by Paulette Bogan is just like it sounds. Flossy bosses everyone around until one day she meets a boy who is as bossy as she is, and she discovers she doesn’t like being told what to do. At the end of the book, there are a few examples of appropriate language students can use in different situations, instead of telling others what to do. Again, this would be another great chart we could make and build on throughout the year.
The other book I recently discovered is Horrible Bear by Ame Dyckman.
When the girl’s kite is accidentally broken by Bear, she gets mad and
decides he is horrible. It’s not until she
accidentally breaks something of her own that she realizes what Bear did was not
intentional, and she shouldn’t be upset with him. She discovers this a little too late though,
because Bear has become angry with her for blaming him. The book has a cute ending as Bear and the
girl are able to “patch things up!”
This year, I’m thinking of using Bossy Flossy and Horrible
Bear as a start to our many conversations about “What you can do if someone....
is bossy, makes you mad, hurts your feelings, calls you a name, takes something
from you…” And whatever other excitement
we encounter during our year together!
I’m on the lookout for other books we can use this year to lend
to our conversations about being good friends.
If you have recommendations, please leave a comment below! Now, I guess I have to get back to my “to do”
list! On second thought, it’s a good day
for the beach and all this talk about books makes me want to sit on the sand
with my new mystery novel. My lists will
still be there tomorrow!