Monday, January 2, 2017

The Power of the Unlikely and the Insurmountable



So in the midst of my normal resolutions this New Years (I will try not to roll my eyes when the words data and rigor are mentioned at meetings and I will try to write the correct year on checks) I am going to for real also try not to overlook the unlikely or seemingly insurmountable. 

This does not mean attempting to climb every mountain and cross every sea (breaking into song like Maria VonTrapp in The Sound of Music). I simply want to stop and consider things I might otherwise overlook. The things I don’t think I have time for, the things I fear trying, or the things that seem impossible and insurmountable. The thing is, often the greatest gems in this life stem from these “unlikelies”. Friendships bloom between the most unlikely of people, opportunities come at the most unlikely of times, in the most unlikely of places, and sometimes the most insurmountable circumstances yield the biggest blessings. I personally can attest to the fact that many unlikely and seemingly insurmountable situations have blessed my socks off! 

One of my biggest unlikely and insurmountable situations turned blessing happened several years ago. I had just returned from maternity leave and a colleague suggested that I start a store on Teachers Pay Teachers. I loved creating lessons and activities and planning has always been my favorite part of the job, but I had 3 small children, one of which was a new baby. It seemed unlikely that I would have the time or mental energy to even think about it. My children wanted to be fed. Three meals. Daily. And clean clothes. Then there was teaching and lesson planning. Pages and pages of lesson plans. And my husband. And friendships. And sleep. I could not imagine having time for anything beyond getting through each day. 

But a tiny inkling kept whispering about this unlikely. Little by little I dipped my toe in the waters of teacherpayteacher.com. Slowly, I started my store (Math Mojo), built up a collection of activities, created products, and developed a following. It took time and work, but it fed me in a way that the other aspects of my life were not. It did not feel like “work”. The sellers worked together in an effort to put this innovative corner of the internet, this beautiful idea by Paul Edelman, on the map. I could barely contain my excitement at being a part of this. I urged friends and colleagues to join me and they too began this unlikely journey, even though it was just as much of an unlikely for them. We developed networks and friendships that have grown to become some of my most treasured relationships and closest friends. We worked together, dreamed, struggled, traveled, learned, laughed, and lifted each other up all because of this unlikely opportunity. It helped us form friendships, took us from one end of the country to the other, and allowed us to do what we love and live life in a way we only dreamed about.

So this year I am going to take the time to hear the whispers, to listen for the unlikelies. In my daily life I am bombarded from all directions. It is easy to get lost in the day to day grind, just trying to keep my head above water. This year, I want to try be present, be intentional, and to take the time to see past the noise and look for the unlikely thing that may take me in a direction I never imagined was possible.

What was your biggest “unlikely” or insurmountable situation turned blessing? I would love to read about it in the comments! Have a wonderful New Year and keep your eyes and hearts open to the unlikely!



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8 comments:

  1. Alexis, I loved reading this post! You are absolutely right, " I could not imagine having time for anything beyond getting through each day." I sorta felt the same way! Glad I did not listen to myself.
    :-)Robin

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    1. I am so glad you didn't listen and went for it!

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  2. Keep on Keeping on Alexis!!! So grateful to have you as a friend and an inspiration!!!
    Elaine

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    1. Elaine your friendship is inspiring! Your humor and smiles (often as I am just starting my day at school) are some of the best parts of my day!

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  3. Hi! What a great story you have. So true that TpT inspires creativity in wonderful ways! After a tough year, sought ways to distract myself and ended up learning some fun new crafts like beading and crocheting. Also made some wonderful friends while doing that. :)

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    1. I made an unlikely friend in a co-worker who just drove me nuts initially. She was short on niceties and downright rude at times. I prayed about it and was going to kill her with kindness! We became good work friends! :)

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    2. I LOVE this story. This is so encouraging that kindness made all the difference!

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  4. Carol P. Awesome idea! Not only do you reduce stress you have some great craft projects!

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